The Art of being Cool.

Today's topic is going to be interesting. I will be discussing on the art of being ' cool'. I  use the word 'cool' I do not refer to the temperature or the weather, but I refer to being popular or someone that everyone wants to be. Everyone wants to be this person because their life seems exciting, they have millions of friends, they basically have a "Perfect" life. 

If you are wondering if I am a popular person myself and have this kinda lifestyle, and I am interested to share tips on being popular. Nope, you are mistaken. I am not a popular, cool kid. I am just a simple person with simple dreams. In this blog I want to talk about my experiences with these kind of people and basically just understand people better in this process. And a small disclaimer, I do not mean to offend anybody in any way, this is just my analogy of people around me.

In our lives, we meet all kinds of people, the weird ones, the pretty ones, the ones we like, the ones we hate etc. Cool people are one of this kind we meet. These kinda people are really hard to miss. The come in with the air of superiority, everyone stops doing what they are doing, everyones eyes turn towards them, the wind blows their hair, a really catchy song plays in the background and everything about them screams perfection. Okay I am kidding, these is  not really what happens. But wouldn't this  be cool if it ever did.

Usually these kind of people have always portrayed themselves as perfect. But in most cases the reality is something different all together, they are not actually this "Perfect" person with these perfect life. They put up these colourful and beautiful masks, to distract everyone from what is actually going one. These part of human mind is something I have always struggled to understand. Why do people find the necessity to hide their  imperfections? What is wrong in being imperfect?Nothing. Isn't being imperfect or having flaws something that is natural, something that makes us, us. 

Sometimes I wonder that people hide their problems or their flaws, to show their supremacy over another person. But what is the point of being powerful, if you do not have solutions to you problems.

I just want to pass this message to people, do not mask out your problems or imperfections. It is okay to be imperfect. You may not realise it but a lot of people are in the same boat as you. And just a side note, do not compare your life to other's life. This is because you may just being seeing the highlights of someone else's life. Everyone has problems, some mask it, some do not. Learn to concentrate on making your life better rather than seeing if some else has a better life than you. 

Thank You🧡

-MJM.